People can use the internet and reading to learn from others without necessarily speaking to them directly.

“mean you don't need to talk I mean the internet is a pretty”

“pretty pretty useful thing in this respect and you don't need to necessarily talk to people like you can get a lot of benefit from reading like like you just need to identify okay like who are the people who seem like constantly most interesting and you can also get a lot of benefit or maybe you found one person and then often that person will know some other people who are interesting and then you can like start tracing the social network so for example maybe”